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People Messing Up Rl Marrages

Shawn Hoffman
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Join date: 12 Feb 2005
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06-17-2005 23:12
What Is It With People Messing Up Rl Marriges In This Game. Just Had Someone Mess Up My Marrage In Rl. How Low Life Is That! It Seems That All Most People Want To Do In Here Is Hurt People!
Nolan Nash
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06-17-2005 23:17
Careful Shawn, naming names in an accusatory fashion, even if you're right, is not really allowed.

Good luck, and I hope things get better.
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Shawn Hoffman
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06-18-2005 01:00
Sorry new at this. didn't know i did some thing wrong. ty for your reply
Lo Jacobs
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06-18-2005 01:08
Well, y'know, not to be mean or anything, but cheating is cheating. If you know that your spouse wouldn't want you to have an online relationship, and you do it anyway, then ... well, it's kind of your fault, no?

And if you didn't know that your spouse wouldn't want you to, you should have a good idea anyway (after all, you are married to the person).

Good luck either way.
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Shawn Hoffman
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06-18-2005 01:32
you have it all wrong i didn't do the cheating she did. i was faithfull to her. only played the game when she did and with her, but started working and couldn't play the game that much and she started playing with others
Shawn Hoffman
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06-18-2005 01:34
said she accidently divored us on the game. how stupind does she think i am.
Shawn Hoffman
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06-18-2005 01:35
and wanted to play the game with him and use her other account to play when we played
Shawn Hoffman
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06-18-2005 01:36
so no one knew who she was.
Eboni Khan
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06-18-2005 01:40
Ohh I'm sorry to hear this :(
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Shawn Hoffman
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06-18-2005 02:00
well shit happens. life sucks and you die :( that's my life story!
Neehai Zapata
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06-18-2005 07:49
I don't think you can blame other people for messing up your marriage. That is a little on the selfish side.

The two people in the marriage are the two people responsible for it. Sounds to me like your wife is a liar and a cheater. That is your problem, not this game or the people in it.
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Rickard Roentgen
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06-18-2005 10:11
From: Shawn Hoffman
What Is It With People Messing Up Rl Marriges In This Game. Just Had Blackwolf Sunset Mess Up My Marrage In Rl. How Low Life Is That! It Seems That All Most People Want To Do In Here Is Hurt People!


sorry to hear it. interesting writing method. I've seen people capitolize everything, and nothing, but you're the first I've seen cap the first letter of each word.
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Chip Midnight
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06-18-2005 10:30
Shawn, you should edit your post to remove the name. Anyway, sorry to hear of your troubles. As the old saying goes, if you can't do the time, don't do the crime.
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Ardith Mifflin
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06-18-2005 11:48
From: Rickard Roentgen
sorry to hear it. interesting writing method. I've seen people capitolize everything, and nothing, but you're the first I've seen cap the first letter of each word.


WHEN YOU TRY TO CAPITALIZE EVERYTHING, IT CONVERTS ALL WORDS TO TITLE CASE.
Ardith Mifflin
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06-18-2005 11:49
Rickard,

When You Type In All Caps, It Converts To Title Case.
Lo Jacobs
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06-18-2005 11:51
Ah ... got it wrong then. I'm sorry to hear about this :(
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Paris Cellardoor
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06-18-2005 12:41
From: Shawn Hoffman
What Is It With People Messing Up Rl Marriges In This Game. Just Had Blackwolf Sunset Mess Up My Marrage In Rl. How Low Life Is That! It Seems That All Most People Want To Do In Here Is Hurt People!


Sorry to hear that. But maybe you shouldn't be having virtual romantic relationships if you are married in RL. Just some healthy advice. ;)
Chip Midnight
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06-18-2005 12:45
From: Paris Cellardoor
Sorry to hear that. But maybe you shouldn't be having virtual romantic relationships if you are married in RL. Just some healthy advice. ;)


Seems it was the other way around. His RL partner was "playing." I hope things work out for you Shawn. I know in your shoes I'd be very upset! I hope she learns her lesson and you're able to work things out. Best of luck to you.
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Tya Fallingbridge
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06-18-2005 13:16
From: Neehai Zapata
I don't think you can blame other people for messing up your marriage. That is a little on the selfish side.



Very true. Shawn I dont know you, but by the sound of your post here, I gather you are fairly young.When one spouse looks for another, its not for "cheating" its merely for an emotion connection, why? Cause there is no communication in the marriage, communication on an intimate level. It takes two, its not the person the spouse ends up spending time with. Who knows what the spouse as said to the innocent person...

I personally think it was in bad taste to name the person and spill this to the SL community.
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Shawn Hoffman
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Ppl Messing Up Rl Marrages
06-20-2005 21:20
Sorry for the name listing. didn't know you could edit it. it's done and sorry again for the mistake. won't happen again. ty all for your concern and replies.
LilMissy Fox
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Join date: 12 Mar 2005
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06-21-2005 09:02
Oh and Shawn, just so you know...........It DOESN'T matter how you type in forum.. Caps or no caps... some folks just tend to zoom in on that kind of crap. Hope everything works out for you!!