From: Chip Midnight
Female KC fans are a rarity. Most women seem to hate math rock for some reason.
lol, chip... -thank- you, as my, um, 'webmaster' (or 'avimaster') would take that as a compliment... um... knowwhuttimean?

i (and my wm) don't wish to seriously mislead folks. i've wondered about asking about this more in forum, and have looked around to see if there were any threads (other than the random gripe about it, or threads titled like complaints - "only post as your 'real' 2L/1L self"

regarding this kind of play. (that being said, i'm strictly 'lesbian'...

but i have many friends, and love them all dearly.

i would propose making an entry in the sl wiki dictionary - 'femi'. kinda like 'furry' (maybe others could suggest a spelling that better incorporates a 'y' into the spelling)... that is, within SL (and other online environments), a male impersonating a female. the bad part about not being in-world, is having your 1L profile viewable. i can understand if it's a resentful form of play, but at the same time... well, why don't i let him speak for himself??

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nyoko's wm: ...
who am i? middle-aged? sure, i s'pose, but i still get carded once in a while.

balding? my forehead's always been this high, and i've got pictures to prove it - and rather handsome, if not in the usual way. sexually-frustrated? well, hell yeah!!

but, um, aren't we all? but not really hurtin' for it, either... i've had plenty already... so much it's own subject.
but if virtual sex was all i was after, considering i can't even play in-world right now, i wouldn't hang around the forums so much (even if only to assuage my sl addiction

. i enjoy the company of educated, entertaining folk of all types...
and if i still talk a bit like 'nyoko' (smileys and all), it's because nyoko allows me to break my shell... ('awwww...' - nyo

hell, i tend to use a lot more smileys than many others anyways; it helps to keep my 'online emotional syntax' understood. so much stiffness in online conversation, and i hate the constrictions of 'maleness'... though i'm alllll man, ba-bayyy...

i dunno; this is its own whole philosophy that i'm learning and adopting along the way myself. during my brief time 'inside', i got the impression that this 'psychological playtime' is a superficially misunderstood or underexplored genre of its own. (and not to downplay that it's a concept mis-used by others... i wished to try to take my characterplay seriously, instead of treating nyo only as a 'paper doll'...)
call it a pyschological schism, but she's become rather 'real' for me, in my mind -and- in my dreams... not necessarily as my 'dreamgirl,' but as a friend, a projection of my 'better half,' mentally. she's helping me to become a better person. strange, as i'd never considered how far playing nyoko as a character could go (nor did i put much forethought into doing so).
i'd hate to disappoint anyone thinking i'm a 'cool female', when really, nyoko is myself, my own experiences expressed through her. i should say though, there -are- terrific, brainy beautiful women out there into a lot of this music, believe it or not (though they may still have yet to be introduced to it

. some of pat metheny's work can be a good introduction, if they're into modern jazz - see if they get into his fusion stuff. and yeah, 'discipline' is a good entry album; i haven't met a girl yet who doesn't completely melt to 'matte kudesai'.

they may not be into listening to it -all- the time, but then again, neither am i... too many varied genres i like.
i'll leave off at that, and have nyoko finish up... take care, y'all.

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well, probably weren't expecting all that, i bet!!

i hope that wasn't taking you overly-seriously, chip, but i hated to think that i'd mislead you too far without disclosing myself, as i should to you (as a personally respected skin/photoshop expert

and to all, really... i respect you all, and would hate to disrespect you by not saying so.

but, i should have expected that eventually i would need to start the conversation, especially when i decided to start my own first thread (didn't think much about it at the time i posted it... seemed innocuous enough, just to launch an open thread.

that being said, maybe others could comment about their thoughts and feelings about this kind of play; i'd be interested to hear about it.
i also felt spurred the other day about this subject, reading a thread regarding "needing XXX dancers - 'male' and female!!"

i wondered, are there many 'female as male' characters out there? i'm sure there'd be so, but lol... i would think maybe a handful, in comparison to the 'male-as-females'.

but that's a stereotype too, i s'pose.
well, discuss, if you like - as i said, i'd be interested to hear about the 'state of play'. otherwise, meet'cha in the next ot!!
