Hi there
My home setup is a Dell Latitude D500 laptop (doesn't have a recommended graphics card) with a second monitor. The second monitor is nice and large so I have been running SL on there, but recently I went away and took my laptop to be able to work. I had been getting around 2 fps, just about enough to use SL. When I tried SL when I was away I suddenly found I was getting 15 fps or so, everything was moving properly, the whole system was properly responsive. Amazing I thought, maybe its the broadband. But then I looked through this forum for stuff along those lines and all I could come up with was a warning that using 2 monitors can cause a little lag.
So when I came home, I switched off the second monitor, started up SL and ta da! 15 fps. What joy! I also found a problem I had had with never being able to get my av's skin textures to bake and so looking permanently jet black was immediately solved.
So I would seriously recommend any people getting by with substandard graphics cards DONT USE 2 MONITORS!