How Do I Log Out A Stuck Avie (meaning I Already Logged Out And She's Still There)

HOW DO I LOG OUT A STUCK AVIE (MEANING I ALREADY LOGGED OUT AND SHE'S STILL THERE) I can't log in now! been stuck this way for hours. How the hell do i log her out so i can get control again?

Usually
- have someone message your stuck avatar , it will go "offline" after awhile for them

- create an alt and message yourself, a few times, then system will bother refreshing and you will go offline

- relog in another sim, usually this error is caused by the last sim is to slow/bogged down with tasks and your avatar get stuck in limbo

Any of these usually do it

i did that all last night- 9 hours later and i still cannot get in, and my account has obviously timed out by now
but i still can't get it
it tells me to wait till xx:xx:xx and just tacks on 5 minutes everytime i try

The "sending messages" way of reminding SL about ghosted avatars stopped working a while ago. Restarting the sim seems now to be the only reliable way to de-ghost someone. So I guess it's lucky for you that there's a rolling restart scheduled for this afternoon SL time!

There also is a server-side fix in this batch of updates that should result in this happening a little less often

well i suppose thats good news...of course i won't be home lol, but hey w/e I just want my girl back