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seems as if Im getting bashed here and in SL well its all good cause I'm over it....I never once took from anyone and its okie cause I see things that are copied all the time the pic here that I'm putting up. you think its Brianna Dawson's pants there not there Sweeter than honeys pants! so things can happen...maybe same web site used or something I don't know. It doesn't mean she copied the pants it just means she found them off a web site or something. I just want people to stay off me because you don't have a clue you don't even come to me and look at my stuff you just acussed and I'm tired of it. keep it to your self or report it I dont care...let a linden handle it. I'm just sick of it...I took my stuff down to make you all happy but IT IS MY skin I worked for like 2 weeks on it and I'm very very upset about it. but I'm just tired of the drama we don't need it in SL there is enough in RL. SO LAY OFF ME!

seems as if Im getting bashed here and in SL well its all good cause I'm over it....I never once took from anyone and its okie cause I see things that are copied all the time the pic here that I'm putting up. you think its Brianna Dawson's pants there not there Sweeter than honeys pants! so things can happen...maybe same web site used or something I don't know. It doesn't mean she copied the pants it just means she found them off a web site or something. I just want people to stay off me because you don't have a clue you don't even come to me and look at my stuff you just acussed and I'm tired of it. keep it to your self or report it I dont care...let a linden handle it. I'm just sick of it...I took my stuff down to make you all happy but IT IS MY skin I worked for like 2 weeks on it and I'm very very upset about it. but I'm just tired of the drama we don't need it in SL there is enough in RL. SO LAY OFF ME!

Teena,

Look, I can understand that you are upset. Mayube you have a right to be and maybe you don't. There's no way for me or anyone else here to know if you are guilty or innocent.

Either way, you're not doing yourself any favors by the way in which you are reacting to the situation. As has already been suggested, the right thing to do here is to be the bigger person and just let it drop. I know it's hard to let something like this go, but the more you harp about it, the worse you're making it.

Up to this point you've got one person angry with you over an alleged wrong, a few people who believe the accuser, a few people who don't, and most people (like me) who are not involved and therefore our opinions are not relevant. However, from this point on, the consequences of the situation are largely in your control.

Starting a new thread after the previous one was shut down by Robin is not the greatest way to get yourself on LL's good side. I obviously can't speak for LL, but if this were my site, both of you would be banned for 2 weeks by now (guilty or not), just so some semblance of peace can be established. As Robin said, this is NOT the place to settle this thing.

The bottom line is two wrongs don't make a right. If your accuser is in the wrong, that's her problem, not yours. Report the slander as abuse and be done with it. If she's telling the truth, then she should similarly use the report system. Either way, there is no possible way that any of us can possibly sort through the he-said/she-said in all this so neither of you is acheiving anything.

All you are accomplishing is the disdain of community members who would rather not see the forums reduced to this level, and the potential wrath of Linden Labs who have already warned you once to drop it.

If you're innocent, I feel sorry for you. If you're guilty, I still feel sorry for you, but for different reasons. Either way, do yourself and the rest of us a favor and let this one go.

Yes you are right! I have dropped it and made them all happy took my skin down that I worked soo hard on. but hey what do they care. what does anyone care! Im sorry to those who have read this mess I apologize for it. Hopefully It want happen again. It just bothers me I got banned from some where for no reason because of the he said she said stuff but anyways its all good and I hope this is dropped from here. SORRY for everything readers Tena

Tena, I think most people in these kinds of situations, where it's one person's word against another's with nothing else to go on, don't pick a side. I know I don't. Misunderstandings happen too easily to make hasty judgements about people. Maybe you and Santana can get together in world and compare textures and techniques so that you can put her mind at ease and the situation to rest. I hope it works out for both of you.