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Dazzo Street
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Join date: 1 Aug 2004
Posts: 71
04-24-2006 01:06
[edited] seems to think its cool to laugh at my girlfriend cuz she's got cancer. HEY yer cool [edited]! i tell the lindens, they dont care. he laughed at her directly, she reported him. no go. this is day 3 of him harassing us. how do we stop him? how? when the lindens dont help how do we stop this stuff? he thinks its funny that she's dying. good game! want me to post some of his quotes?
Kris Ritter
paradoxical embolism
Join date: 31 Oct 2003
Posts: 6,627
04-24-2006 01:34
how about you post to general in the forums with a totally uninformative thread title and name names against the CS?

And sure! Break the CS still further by posting quotes for us!

Enjoy your enforced break.

:rolleyes:
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Dazzo Street
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Join date: 1 Aug 2004
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04-24-2006 01:48
if the lindens put me on time out and not [edited] after a week of reporting then so be it.
Willow Zander
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Join date: 22 May 2004
Posts: 9,935
04-24-2006 01:55
From: Dazzo Street
if the lindens put me on time out and not [edited] after a week of reporting then so be it.



Well, if he comes to the forums and posts about you he will prolly go on a time out too!

If you get a time out! Your gf will have to cope on her own with his asshatedness! :(
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Dazzo Street
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04-24-2006 02:01
since when did the community stop caring? someone makes fun of a girl for dying? i love this girl with all my heart, and you people think its up for debate? why?
Willow Zander
Having Blahgasms
Join date: 22 May 2004
Posts: 9,935
04-24-2006 02:10
From: Dazzo Street
since when did the community stop caring? someone makes fun of a girl for dying? i love this girl with all my heart, and you people think its up for debate? why?


Who is debating? We are trying to help you by pointing out that you can't go around quoting quotes or naming names! He is an asshat for making fun of her, but if you get a forced vacation its not gunna bother him is it now, just makes him easier for him to get to her!

LOGIC!

Oh and by the way, My mother had cancer, so I happen to know first hand how it feels to see them upset.
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Kris Ritter
paradoxical embolism
Join date: 31 Oct 2003
Posts: 6,627
04-24-2006 02:13
From: Dazzo Street
you people think its up for debate? why?


um... who brought it to the forums and public? What did you expect the reaction to be when you go naming someone with entirely unfounded allegations and we dont know you or him from adam?

Maybe you want us to get out the pitchforks and torches and go hoist him up on a virtual gallows?

No really, I'm actually interested to know what you thought it would achieve to bring it here, apart from abuse reports against you.
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Dazzo Street
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Posts: 71
04-24-2006 02:52
do what u want. if i get a vacation, then thats cool. it'd point out what the lindens stand for. and yes i came on here to point out what an asshat [edited] is for laughing at a person who's dying of cancer. am i the bad guy? maybe., probabaly. doesnt matter to me. go ahead and suspend me. it'd just prove my point
Anyanka Bunnyhug
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Join date: 27 Jul 2005
Posts: 49
04-24-2006 03:34
Hi Dazzo

I am sorry for you and your gfriend's experience, but unfortunately the forums are not the best place to vent, unless you are willing to except everyone's opinions. And by naming names, you unfortunately do put yourself at risk.

As for Linden Labs - they are in no position to do anything to the offender. In RL if someone laughs at you for whatever reason, you can't run to the law and say - do something. The world - both real and virtual - is filled with insensitivity, and we have to be stronger. It still hurts though and you have every right to be saddened. But you cannot expect anyone else to do something about it.

To me the most unfortunate part of all of this is that such personal information about your gf was available in the first place.

Strength to both of you.
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Foolish Frost
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Join date: 7 Mar 2005
Posts: 1,433
04-24-2006 03:51
Now that the above person has said part of what I was going to say, let me say the other half:

I don't know you, your girlfriend, or the accused party. I don't know if your telling the truth or not, I don't know if your an alt or troll tying to stir trouble up. I don't know what good, even if true, airing your grievence with him will do.

And simply, you have no way to prove any of it to me. Anything you post could be a lie, and I would have no way of knowing it.

And finally, a simple method for remving converstions you don't like from SL: Mute the annoying bugger. Mute is not just a shiny button, it's something you can use to stop crap like this from effecting you.

Know it.
Love it.
Use it.

Have a nice day, and please keep all of this in mind before airing your dirty laundry in public again.

<bows out>
Lucifer Baphomet
Postmodern Demon
Join date: 8 Sep 2005
Posts: 1,771
04-24-2006 03:57
The Frosty Foolish one speaks the truth.......
so does Kris, Anyanka and Willow.

Your best move would be to delete his name from your posts, so you dont get suspended, it would surely be better if you were with your gilfriend, and you and your girlfriend mute the offending party.
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Torley Linden
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Join date: 15 Sep 2004
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04-24-2006 04:13
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