What to do.............

It's been damn near a year now.

Me and hubby have been in SL. We each do different things. But we are NOT going to 'swing' in SL currently.

Since day ONE...well almost day one hehe, there has been this gal....not a lady, that considered my hubby a smart and funny guy...kewl, great, that wanted him to be her 'SUB'.

We don't do the sub/dom thing...but anyway....and yes he told her that we #1 don't share at this time and #2 don't do the sub/dom thing.

And I swear to god this chick is thick...I really think, as does he, that his biggest appeal to her is that she can't have him.

I mean 1 year later and she still won't leave it go.

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How do I make the poor thing stop? She actually sent him a titty card for Xmas, and he hasn't been on for ages...........I kinda feel sorry for her.

Maybe Hubby should tell her in no uncertain terms to stop. It seems to me she would not persist unless being given some encouragement to keep it going by your hubby...perhaps unintentionally. Sometimes being polite doesnt convey a clear message and some people need to be hit over the head with it..but from your hubby, not from you. Val may even be encouraged to persist if she sees this as a competition with you, so he is the one who must tell her back off. Muting her would help since then he would not receive her messages or notes..that is, if he really wants to stop receiving them!

I do think many of the women in SL are aggresive to the point of seeming desperate for male attention. Good luck!

This deserves an AR for harrassment.

P2

Log in as your husband and screw with her head until she tells you to leave her alone.


Or AR her.

Ok, so you are saying that some girl has been after your man for almost a year and that he has done nothing to encourage it? I dunno, I just find it hard to believe that someone would continue to do this if it wasn't wanted. I know of some women who enjoy the chase but I would think after so long...oh say a year...she would give it up. Just seems odd to me but I'm not loony like some women lol. I would think if it were such a problem that she would have been muted or reported long ago. As far as the D/s goes, something had to make her think he was interested in it. I'm in D/s and you pretty much know who is interested in it and who isn't.

Oh I can definitely believe that this woman has not given up chase. The "no" factor just does not take shape or hold with some people on this game. All it takes for some is just some pity conversation and they take it as a sign to pursue a relationship full speed.

But they are right, your husband needs to be the one to tell her to back off. If she continues to contact, then AR. He can mute her but there are ways around mute for her to be able to continue.

Just submit. It will be good for everyone.

"Submission is futile." ~Unpublished of Borg.

LMAO...ok that's too funny hehe

I removed the chat log from the original post - please do not post chat logs to the SL Forums.

That's kewl and all but that wasn't a chat log in any way....was my 'lil made up things I WOULD HAVE LIKED to have said to her. And also was a made up name.

So I was a good gurl.

Nyx, you and your husband seem to be in a pretty good place in terms of openess and comfortability with each other. Could this thing be more of an annoyance to you than it is to him? I mean, he has the added ego boost factor; people quite content in their marriage and/or relationship still like feeling that they are considered to be amusing and intelligent by others.

He's not hiding anything from you and you seem quite confident and secure of your position. But he hasn't bothered to mute or AR her, nor is he posting here asking for advice. Maybe he considers it to be a nonissue?

ROFL I would SO do that.

Oh UR right, it annoys me more hehe, he's a good guy and they are friends. But we both recognized that she was pushing for more. But he's in WoW almost all the time now so it HAD died down. I just got a a lil pissy about a card she sent. I don't think jealousy is the correct word.....'cuz it's not gonna happen. But I got 'annoyed' hehe.

I somewhat regret even starting the thread, makes me sound whiny and insecure, I just get my undies in a bunch when people push to hard, so I ranted a tad. Of course I'm sure he, I, U, anyone would like the attention.

Nah, it's not jealousy; it's wanting your due respect. I am good friends with a few guys and in order to maintain that status I take care to give their ladies proper respect. This is her bad not yours.

But maybe in the future a private venting session with a friend would be a better choice than the general forum .

UR soo right....now I will let this thread die

OOOOOOOHHHHHHHHH NYX! MUhahaha!.. wanna borrow me gun?... lmao!.?..

I think it's safe to say that there is no obvious constructive discussion going on in this thread, as such it's being closed.