
Something that only really occured to me today that I find kind of confusing. What does one do if someone makes libelous or defamatory statements about you in the forums? I'm trying to differentiate here between simple angry name calling and serious defamatory statements of a false nature.
I mean doesn't it seem odd that something that is 100% illegal in RL, something that could be stopped in a heartbeat by a court order, is seemingly unstoppable on the virtual forum?
I mean lets face it, most of us have made intemperate remarks, there is something about the anonymity of the forums that practically encourages it. If someone gets mad at you and calls you a bad name in the fourms or in game ( you do it to someone else), then it's a "personal attack" and can be reported etc. The person can be sanctioned or banned within the game as a result. However, despite the vehemence of some of these attacks, in the end they are really just name calling and probably best responded to with a "game-level" punishment. There is a lot of anger, a lot of "fireworks," but no one is really being hurt are they?
If on the other hand, in the course of a discussion about factual matters someone consistently defames you, exaggerates facts or lies about you - says that you are, hmmm.. let's say a thief, a liar, incompetent in the performance of your job or are knowingly and purposefully engaged in illegal activity (and you are not), isn't this a different thing altogether?
These are serious charges. Charges that in RL, might get you thrown in jail (at least in my country.) If this person was making the exact same statements in RL about my RL business there would be no question that I could get a court order or injunction for them to cease and decist immediately. Serious economic harm can result form these kind of remarks. One's reputation can be easily destroyed by one vidictive and loud person.
If on top of this you are engaged in a legal matter with this person where you don't even really have the luxury of replying to these false claims, doesn't it seem odd that they should be allowed to go on and on, spewing all these hatefull lies and remarks about you and yet have it not even be a reportable offense in terms of forum behaviour?
Again in RL, this exact situation is considered to be a very "black and white" affair. If you are engaged in a legal dispute with someone, and then subsequently go to the newspapers or stand on your soapbox and make all kinds of accusatory defamatory remarks that directly relate to the matter you are in court over you would be dragged of your soap box by the local police (at least where I live). If you did not stop making these remarks you would be arrested. If any newspaper or electronic forum was foolish enough to print your rants, they too would be criminally liable. Maybe the law is different in the US?
On the forums however, it seems like there is nothing one can do. It seems LL considers calling someone an "asshole" to be a ban-able offense and the post will be deleted forthwith, but a person can go on and on like this over a period of years stating their "opinion" (libelous though it may be) that various people are theives, traitors, liars etc. and that is fine and dandy?
Seemingly the only way to stop such a person is to "out" ones RL identity and take them to a RL court about it, but is this really realistic? I don't think so. Think of the expense and the trouble you would have to go to over each incident and then they will likely just do it again and again. And what if you don't even live in the same country?
Shouldnt' there be some kind of forum or "game-level" level punishment for this sort of behaviour? Some way of stopping such abuse? Is there no way to stop others from making pubic accusations about you that are unproven and viciously repeated over and over again? The way it is right now, one can't even AR someone for this action as it isn't considered a "personal attack." By couching these defamatory statements in the guise of a "debate" and engaging the other party in a false discussion, the statements are passed off as mere opinion and pretended to be factually based. So you could AR it as an "attack" but she can always get out of it that way, even though in a legal sense, it's actually far worse. Seems like according to LL, the legal ramifications are just "up to you" to worry about.
I must say its interesting to find oneself in the situation of being virtually assasinated (character-wise) in a public forum owned by Linden Labs and not even being able to even AR the abuser! And what if it's not just you, but many people that this person has done similar damage to over and over again?
For years.
Shouldn't it be that something this wrong and this illegal in RL, should at least warrant a slap on the wrist in the forums? Isn't it really to all of our advantages to stop people like this from endlessly propagating their paranoid attacks on the rest of us?
I would really like to hear Linden Labs policy on what measures they could or should use to deal with the type of person that continually does this sort of thing. I think this person should be banned from the forums permanently, but then I have a bias I suppose.

There is actually a precedent. There is one person I have known who continually made these kind of attacks over a long period of time. The funny thing is that person, as bad as they were, apologized all the time as well. That person would admit they were wrong from time to time and the statements they made might have been annoying and bothersome they were not really legally actionable. What's really funny though is this first person was in fact banned for life from the SL forums.
The harshest punishment that has ever been handed down for an avatar in Second Life!
Yet their transgressions were not illegal and the number of people they actually hurt with their remarks was tiny in comparison.
The person who has been ruining my life lately (and possibly my business), has sometimes dropped hints that they "know someone" or are perhaps even related to someone in Linden Labs. Is this why they never seem to get sanctioned for what is arguably the most horrible hate-filled performance in all of the forums? This may be just rumor of course, or even bravado on their part, but the question remains even so. Why ban the first person for life, but not the other?
Tonight, as I write this, I think this is the first time in my life that I wish I was an American citizen and living in San Francisco, simply because if I was, I could hire a lawyer, and have her walk up to Philip Linden and slap a cease and desist order on his desk in regards the posts of this person as well as a request to find out the true identity of this evil sprite that vexes me so, and why in the world she gets away with what she does.
I can't do it. I guess if she goes much further I will simply have to leave the game or come back as someone else, but sooner or later someone is going to drop a big fat lawsuit on someone's desk at LL over this insanely loose canon IMO.

) In the end, hopefully people will see what I am really like and everything will work out. *crosses fingers* 