Keira, it's really nice of you to be so concerned, but please, don't be. You're offering a valuable service to the public, of which you should be proud. Whether you're offering it freely, or charging for your teaching services, or whatever, you've got every right to share your knowledge any way you see fit. Feel sorry for anyone who might say otherwise. Don't let them make you second guess yourself.
The truth is that anyone who would knowingly withhold information on technique, simply because they're "afraid of competition" is operating from a point of shortsighted, selfish weakness. If one is confident in one's abilities, one should always welcome competition. After all, it is only by competing that we become the best we can be at whatever it is we do. If I build a better mousetrap today, and no one else ever learns to build one that is equally good or better than mine tomorrow, it's unlikely I'll ever be inspired to improve any further than I already have. That limits not only my own personal growth, but the entire state of mousetrap building itself. I owe it to myself and to everyone else in the world to let others learn from me, just as I continue to learn from others. That's what makes the world go 'round, as they say.
Dr. Stephen Covey calls it the "abundance mentality" vs. the "scarcity mentality". People with the scarcity mentality see life as a kind of pie. If they get a big slice of it, they feel good. If someone else gets a bigger slice, they feel bad. It's a fairly depressing outlook. People with the abundance mentality, on the other hand, realize there's plenty to go around for everyone. Everybody gets their own pie. If someone else cuts out a big old giant slice of their pie and enjoys eating it, you can feel truly happy for that person. You understand that his slice doesn't in any way diminish your pie at all. You can still slice off as much as you want of your own.
If that sort of positive outlook is lost on anyone, then here are some equally good self-interest-based reasons to share as much information as you can:
1. We all need more customers.The more compelling the SL world is, the more people it will attract. The more residents, the larger the customer base, the more business we all can do. In order for us to have as many customers as possible, the world needs to be as attractive as it can be to the largest possible audience, and for that, we need for as many existing residents as possible to learn how to make good-looking, exciting, entertaining content.
It's the oldest play in the retail sales book. If people stop to look, they'll stay to buy. We all need for the general public to be intrigued enough by what they see and experience in SL to want to explore more and more, until they eventually find us (or we find them). Otherwise, we've got no chance at all of ever selling them anything at all.
With that in mind, we've got very little to lose by sharing our knowledge, and potentially everything to gain. It's pretty much a no-brainer. Sharing means we all win. I don't know about you, but I'd rather compete with a hundred other creators for a customer than have a hundred less customers that I don't even get a shot at. In that it propels industry forward, competition is ALWAYS good for business.
2. Teaching others always makes you better at what you do.Pick up any self-help book worth the paper it's printed on (many of the are not, but some are), and you'll find that one of the first things it will say will be something to the effect of "As you're reading and learning this material, teach it to someone else as soon as you possibly can. If all you do is study it, you'll absorb SOME of what you read. But if you teach it to someone else, you'll learn it all."
That's an age-old principle of how our brains work. We're social animals. We don't do well in isolation. We thrive on communication. When we explain something to someone else, we formulate and crystallize our thinking on the subject in way that we never would were we just to keep the information to ourselves. No matter how well we think we know a topic, we don't REALLY know it until we've discussed it with someone. That's just how we tick.
This concept is as applicable to SL content creation as it is to anything else. Want an example? I'll give you one, me. You see, contrary to what a lot of people who approach me these days seem to think, I wasn't born with a silver graphics card in my hand. I had to struggle through learning what I now know, just like everyone else. Want to know what have been some of my best sources for learning? This forum and others like it.
That may sound a little odd if you've read my posts, since 99.9% of the time I'm answering questions, not asking them. But think about it in relation to what I just said. We learn best by teaching. Every so often someone will post a question that it never before occurred to me to think about. The question intrigues me, so I'll figure out the answer, and then post it. End result, we all learn something new. Multiply that by all the years I've been doing this, and the inevitable result is someone who APPEARS to instinctively know as much as people tell me I seem to.
I'm sure that anyone who spends as much time answering questions as I do would have a very similar story. As much as I really do enjoy helping others learn, I do benefit from the process just as much, if not more, than the people whose questions I answer.
3. If you afraid to share, you're proving you aren't really very good at what you do.Allow me to quote a story from Bob Richards, two-time Olympic gold medalist:
From: Bob Richards
There Is Greatness All Around You... Use it!
There are many people who could be Olympic champions, All-Americans who have never tried. I'd estimate five million people could have beaten me in the pole vault the years I won it, at least five million. Men who were stronger, bigger and faster than I was, could have done it, but they never picked up a pole, never made the feeble effort to pick their legs off the ground to try to get over the bar.
Greatness is all around us. It's easy to be great because great people will help you. What is fantastic about all the conventions I go to is that the greatest in the business will come and share their ideas, their methods and their techniques with everyone else. I have seen the greatest salesmen open up and show young salesmen exactly how they did it. They don't hold back. I have also found it true in the world of sports.
I'll never forget the time I was trying to break Dutch Warmer Dam's record. I was about a foot below his record, so I called him on the phone. I said, "Dutch, can you help me? I seem to have leveled off. I can't get any higher."
He said, "Sure Bob, come on up to visit me and I'll give you all I got."
I spent three days with the master, the greatest pole vaulter in the world. For three days, Dutch gave me everything that he'd seen. There were things that I was doing wrong and he corrected them. To make a long story short, I went up eight inches. That great guy gave me the best that he had. I've found that sports champions and heroes willingly do this just to help you become great too.
When in college working on his masters thesis on scouting and defensive football, George Allen wrote up a 30-page survey and sent it out to the great coaches in the country. Eighty-five percent answered it completely.
Great people will share, which is what made George Allen one of the greatest football coaches in the world. Great people will tell you their secrets. Look for them, call them on the phone or buy their books. Go where they are, get around them, talk to them.
John Wooden, the great UCLA basketball coach, has a philosophy that every day he is supposed to help someone who can never reciprocate. That's his obligation.
Who are you learning from? Who are you helping? It is easy to be great when you get around great people!
Got that? Great people will share their knowledge. Those who refuse to share are usually afraid that if they do, then they'll no longer be "on top". Well, if it's really true that the only thing keeping you up there is the fact that no one else (yet) has mastered the same skills as you, then you're not really on top anyway. It's an illusion, nothing more. Sooner or later someone will come along to dethrone you, with or without your direct influence.
You want to be on top for real? Innovate. Embrace the fact that anyone could master those same skills, and then forget all about it. Come up with something that is uniquely you.
To use myself as an example, I'll say this. Like everyone else in the world, I've got a few things I'm good at, and a whole universe of things I'm not so good at. Am I the least bit afraid it will hurt me in any way if I help others to get good at the same things I'm good at? Not at all. Because even if I share every last bit of information I've ever learned, I know that no one else will do exactly what I do. My customers hire me because I'm me. While there are plenty of other talented artists out there who could deliver equally good work, neither the work itself nor the interaction will be quite the same if a client hires one of them. I'm confident enough in my ability to deliver a quality product and an enjoyable experience for my customers that I simply don't care how many others out there can also create good content.
Anyone who lacks that confidence will cause themselves to fail sooner or later. Want to know the best way to develop it? Share what you know, and discover first hand that it hasn't hurt you. In fact, you'll find just the opposite. You'll benefit enormously from the process.
4. What goes around comes around. Reputation goes a long way.I can't tell you how much work I've gotten from people who have read my posts here. It happens all the time. A potential client will contact me to tell me how much they appreciate that I take the time to help others, and "by the way" they've also got this project they want to talk to me about.
I don't go actively seeking that, of course. But it does happen. And it sure feels good when it does.
Call it Karma, or reciprocity, or "do unto others", or what have you. The simple fact is you get back what you send out. The great Zig Zigglar said it best, I think. "You'll get everything you want in life if you just help enough other people get what they want."