Ok... someone is getting seriously on my nerves... what do I do?

Hia all,

I'm sure this question has been asked a lot, but I didn't find something quick, so decided to just put it in a thread here.

I have a problem. And that problem is a certain problem that for some reason has it out for me since literally the first minute I saw her. She's trying to destroy my SL relationship and keeps bugging a lot of my SL friends. I forgave her sometime ago when she asked for it, but she just started again and this is leading to some serious strains with other people, including my girl.

So, my question is ... what are my options, besides simply muting someone? I have been in SL for quite sometime now, but never really have had issues with other people and this is starting to get out of hand. I want to get control of the situation and have her gone from me and my friends and simply muting isn't helping. I have a security system up at my land with a long range radar, have her banned from my land and region, but I can't go anywhere it seems, she knows EXACTLY where I am...

I have allready looked for tracers and bugs, but haven't found any on me or my land, which makes sense because I hardly accept things from people I don't know and never accepted a thing from her, so I'm sort of left with my hands in my hair.

I'm not really looking into getting her banned and I don't even know what I would need to get that done as I don't want to really do that, but slowly... she is getting me there...

Can I trace her? So, I can see if she is not inside the same region or whatever? Anything else that might work?

Thanks in advance for the feedback, guys

Mute , ban ,eject, AR for harrassment. Anything else may open you up to AR yourself. Have people she is bothering AR her as well.

Yeah, was afraid it would have to come down to that... well... guess what has to happen, has to happen... do the Lindens do IP bans?

They do, from what has been posted here. Depending on the severity, perhaps a Support Ticket, or call will help as well.

K... well thanks for the advice. Guess it's time to grab the initiative here.

Cheers!

Muting someone is the fix all in my book. If some 3rd person tries to tell you that the muted individual is trying to contact you, just tell them "i have them muted for a reasson", and that usually settles that and ends others attempts to contact you for that person.

Like all pests, they go away eventually.

The solution is to stop reacting to whatever the person does. If everybody does that... no problems remain.

Mute, ban &c are just tools to assist in that regard. They aren't very good tools, insofar as anyone can make an alternate character, so the really critical move is to simply stop caring about it.

It's actually kinda easy if you've been legitimately pestered without good reason. Much harder if you've been playing games too. Just saying.

kick, ban, AR and tell every one else to do the same

other option is to tell her to go to that bloodline sim befor muting so she has some other people to haras instead

kick, ban, AR, roll around on the floor kicking your legs, waving your arms screaming and tell every one else to do the same