Places, poses, animations for women needed

I am looking for places in SL that are designed with female lovers in mind. Sims to explore that have various affectionate areas with poses built in throughout the grounds, and/or places available to rent for an evening where the poses are specifically for two women avatars to be affectionate, and to make love.

I am also looking for tasteful, quality animations designed for two women to be together affectionately and lovemaking. I don't want to just have one avatar use the male pose, and one use the female pose. The alignment is often off due the the male pose being designed for a larger avatar, for one thing. And secondly, I want it to be specifically made with women in mind.

I do not want sleazy or trashy locations or stores. I am looking for things are are sincerely about love and affection. No BDSM or anything like that. Just nice things for two nice girls in love.

I did not list this in the forum for products wanted because I am also looking for suggestions of places to explore that are designed with women in mind.

My suggestion is to get a couples animator such as an Intan system and fill it with the animations of your choice. I'm a big fan of Bits and Bobs as even the hetero ones there are very erotic and gentle. "Initiative" is one such example, as is "moments" I don't mind running those with girls and they've never complained.

If you do this with an animation controller, then you can take it with you and as long as you can rez objects, use it anywhere. I'm not big on "Have sex here" or "Dance here" pose balls as there's no opportunity to change animations.

Similarly, i've tried a couple of girl/girl animation HUD's and tend to feel that other than a few animations, the others are just a bit lewd and not sensual enough.

Places, well as i've said, I don't go to a "place" as such but then again, i'm on an extended run of celibacy so couldn't help anyway.

Essensual Designs has some very nice girl-girl animations for sale.

Isle of Lesbos?

Thanks for the suggestions. I do like Bits and Bobs and shall have to check out Essentual Designs. I never knew I could put them in a couples animator to make things run more smoothly. What is an Intan system? I am not familiar with it. If I'm running an animator, why would I need permission to rezz objects? Would I still need to rezz the Bits and Bobs pose balls? Isn't there some way for me to run the animation without rezzing the balls?

I hear you about lewd. I don't want lewd. I want passionate, loving, sincere animations, that are easy to run smoothly from one to the next.

I've heard of the Isle of Lesbos, but have not yet visited it. Are there stores there? Or is it just a place to be?

Thanks everyone so far.

Hoping for some more feedback and suggestions.

There is a beautiful kiss on the second floor of Bits and Bobs - I don't know what it's called but the positions just say One and Two- they are meant for girls but work beautifully with hetero couples - havent tried it with a girl so no idea there but i know that is what its meant for. when u go up the stairs in the main store, go to the right and it is in that room but far to the rear and left - wish I could tell you what it was called but I am not inworld right now- it is a ve sweet and sensual kiss.

I do not know having never been there but most places have shops as well, I would be surprised if there is not a shop of some kind.

The reason you need to rez stuff for a couples animator is that you have to rez something for your partner to "sit on" - usually it rezzes two poseballs, or just one, close to you. If you can't rez anything, then you can't do it. At least, that has been my experience.

I have several custom animations which were custom made for myself and my female partner. Theywere specifically made with women in mind.

The animator is no longer makig or selling in SL however i have several copies. If you would like a copy IM me in world and your welcome to try them and if you like them we can work something out.

These are not for sale and never have been

isle of lesbos is a female sim. To be honest the majority of the animations around their sim is not of the romantic kind but the less sensual kind. They have a huge mall but I can never find anything there

Kinki Animations has some lovely cuddles and kisses and also a few girl on girl more sensual

I haven't heard of an Intan system before. What is it?

And what about the animator a lot of people use, that asks if it can animate your avatar, and if you say yes it runs the hug, kiss, etc? Is that something that can be customized with specific animations? And you wouldn't need to be able to rezz poseballs to use that, would you?

Sorry to be so lost, but this part of SL is very new to me. Using animations, especially for couples. I have some animations in my inventory, but short of clicking on them and saying play in world, I don't know any other way to organize them into some sort of animator, so I appreciate any advice I can get!

Thanks for all the help so far, everyone.

Sure, the most common hug/kiss script is Francis Chung's open source one, you can tweak it to run any pair of animations that would work OK played freestanding (that script doesn't use pose balls). The "kiss of death" attachment that was making the rounds for a while was made that way.
The Intan toys mentioned earlier in the thread do let you rez poseballs, though. And you'll want pose balls for many of the romantic and dance pairs out there, they simply don't fit right without the fixed relative positions pose balls allow you.

Intan Eksotics produce the ICDB (Intan Couples Dance Ball)

Basically, it's an animation controller that you fill with your own animations and then as long as you can rez objects, you can rez the pose ball pair anywhere you like.

They are usually found in dance places, Intimate Moments, Bogarts, Camelot etc.

It's my preferred choice because either of you can pull up the menu, unlike some HUD's where only the person who owns it makes the decision and because you don't have a floor full of cluttered pose balls that describe exactly what's going to happen, plus you don't have to disturb the avatar position to swap animation. This applies to dancing as well as other animations. Nothing kills dancing more for me than a change of tempo and having to look around to find the pose balls to suit that, only to find that they're occupied.

As has been mentioned, you need to be able to rez because you need relative positions for the animations to work properly, the no rez methods are ok for some but you need to line up the avatar beforehand and can easily upset it.

The latest Intan can be worn like a dance Chimera, i always take mine to dance places, largely because I have a huge range of animations although it can be a little entertaining to find that a random start up leaves me making out on the floor at a ballroom with someone i've only just met! This happened recently when I was getting on very well with someone, we moved location and I rezzed the balls and almost immediately we were on the ground in a rather lovely kiss. I was quite please to say the least and didn't interrupt. After a couple of minutes she said "this feels strange" and I asked "Didn't you choose this?!" to which she said "No", my Intan obviously had romantic interests in mind. That was the beginning of rapid end of that one, thanks Intan! Poof she went.

Equally though it's nice to have the combination of dances and romance available. It's lovely to be dancing with someone then as a smoocher comes on, throw in a sensual kiss instead of a dance.

I'll happily show you if you want to contact me inworld sometime and I promise i'll let you have the menu and will just wear my Pose Ball Demo Girl tag

After thinking about some of the animations I have loaded into some of my clients' Intan Couple Dance Balls, this could have been a whole lot worse. I mean a WHOLE LOT WORSE.


ROFL

Ok, so I put the pose balls I purchase into the Intan system? Can I put in animations too, or just pose balls? I like what you said about having a combination of dances and romance together. I am looking for something like this, that I can run more naturally, and throw in a kiss or two while dancing! You mention the dance Chimera. Does it not allow for this type of use? Is that why you prefer the Intan for this? I think I bought the Chimera for dancing, but never figured out how to use it. I bought the basic Huddles to fill with fixed poses for modeling for photography, but I'm still trying to master that as well!

Thanks for taking so much time to explain, you are really helping. I think I am close to having a good understanding of it all.

Now I am off in search of an Intan!

Woud still appreciate any more input from people about pose ball sets for two women lovers. I want tasteful, not graphic or obscene. Kissing, hugging, touching, lovemaking - with the poses scaled to two female forms. Using hetero sets, the pose ball for M is always for a larger avatar and doesn't work so well.

You put only the animations in, not the pose balls themselves, the Intan rezzes it's own balls. Chimera is a single animation animator, sure you can share that one animation but not a couples animation set and you can adjust the offset in the Intan which should suit most things.

Call me inworld, happy to show you.