Are border pop-ups really neccessary?

Seems these days its one thing or another. I on occasion will fly from my property in Lipert to my main yard in Sammamish. Its a good distance with many sims separating the two. I fly the Linden road and used to enjoy the trip, Just now I tried to do my normal flight path down the Linden road and much to my displeasure I was confronted at ever sim border crossing with a pop-up telling me the sim was running on a different server than the sim I had just left. I cut my flight in half. My leisurely trip turn into having to stop at every border to delete that dam pop-up, and unless there is a reason like suddenly not being able to see why do I need to be interupted? Social isolism is already rampant and this new "feature" seems set to encourage even less travel. So I might be junping the gun here (very frustrated with the last week of bs) so someone hopefully will say "oh go here in preferences and turn them off", please Mr Wizard, tell me its so.

it just means that the sim you get a popup from hasn`t been restarted yet while the others have and running on the downgraded version