Great thread Tracey, I definatly feel your pain in much the same way. Spend and go broke in taxes. No spend and have a pile of cash with unrealized dreams of cool builds.
What really stinks is that RL interferres with LL too

Kinda a comparison of 2 company layouts would be a good place to start with how LL is to survive. (which I think they will anyway but)
Anyone remember Commodore?
To much product development and exec's dumping company $ into their pockets. Which lead to bankruptcy. That may not be a total full scenario but the gist of it.
They had a great product for it's time but no $ for marketing. In turn no customer base.
It ultimatly killed em.
Now look at the all too favorite $19.95 er advertisements you see on tv.
Some of those companies are makin a good revenue.
Why?
Good quality products?
Not likely.
So how can a company with junk for sale make a good profit?
Develop a product that is of just enough quality to satisfy at least over half the customer base.
Then market the heck out of it.
Not to mention if you can invent a product to make a lazy person lazier and price it with an easy to remember catchy price that has the illusion of being cheap.
Hence the $19.95 (sounds cheap like $19 but actually more like $20)
Then add to it this:
all this for 4 easy payments(in small letters) of $19.95 (in bold large letters)
And theyn the "just wait there's more!"
There is undoubtedly more to this than what im saying but the point is there.
LL is not a big coorporation. They were forced to start small.
I wish we could get a easier tax break in our virtual $ but it's LL RL $ at steak here.

They got a great product, with most likely a limit on resources that prevents them from making it very comfortable for us L$ wise.
Like the example of the overhead it would take to have more servers up for the same amount of land mass currently in the world.
But on a side note I definatly agree that something has to be balanced to make it so that "WE" users can help keep LL going strong and make things that will appeal to the masses when they try out SL. So that hopefully the customer base gets bigger faster and with a good quality of users.
If SL looked like a garbage pit. (not many great wonderous builds like the themed areas, Americana, Darkwood, Nexus, Darkwood, and the others that I didnt mention cuz I don't explore much) It would have 2 effects.
1) general quality of the type of new users would most likely suffer (quality meaning respectful and creative)
2) people wouldn't stay period and the customer base would put LL into a tail spin.
Now if builds like the themes were easier to maintain SL as a whole can and as it should market itself, and therefore survive, and possably flourish.
So in a nut shell I agree the Themes, the people with the money that can't spend it(that spent alot of time and effort to make SL look good and got L$ as a result). Can be less limited in terms of not being able to use what has been aquired.
Then SL can benifit more from the dedicated users, and possably gain some dedicated users to make SL get even further yet.
I bet there are some out there that don't go for financial gain in SL just for the simple reason that they can't use it.
Also just the same I bet there are those that have gotten much financial gain that are holding out in spending just to hope that they may be able to build their dreams in the future.
I hope that future isn't far off.