Preface: Please do not take this as a personal attack.
1) What do you base your opinion on the Physics engine on? - I am afraid that while There may appear to have more SPACE that it does not actualy have more usable land due to the fact that empty land realy dosn't count and There is made up of about 80% empty land.
2) Do you forgive kids for griefing, cursing, harassing and all the fun things that also get the adults in trouble? They do it more often, and personaly its nice to have a (for the most part) adult game for once. Can the adults have no fun alone?
3) The movments of avatars are being worked on and in the near future we will have customizable emotes.
4) Im not sure I understand this "step step jerk jerk" effect you are experiancing, unless it is due to lag. But you must realize that up until recent times the avatar has not ben the center of the game in SL. Building / scripting were. There on the other hand is centered around making your virtual self look good, hence the difference in priorities.
5) SL handles hundreds of users online at the same time just fine, thow they do have issues with too many people in one SIM at the same time (So does there, Only you don't notice it as much on There because of they way the server updates your client it masks lag). The sim issue is being improved in the next build a good deal, but again the EXTREAME Differances in the way the two games work, their focus and the concepts they were designed around disalow for fair comparisons in many respects. Its not like comparing Quake 2 to Unreal 2.
6) SL is no more "finished" than There is. Both are continuing to improve on the system. Both are "projects" in their own right.
You must realize that many people here have a bad taste in their mouths from There, for a multitude of reasons. Liking There is not (seriously) a sin, but you will find people who will bash it. Don't take it personaly or feel you need to defend it.
We all know SL's true strengths and shortcomings. Fighting about it is pointless because, frankly, many people are very set in their opinions about one game or the other.
For the sake of peace, don't take coments about one or the other personaly and realize that most arent bashing it to cause it trouble their just venting
