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Tito Gomez
Mi Vida Loca
Join date: 1 Aug 2004
Posts: 921
03-17-2005 18:27
As we all know, SL is freaking too much like RL. Same pains, same pleasures. Only difference may be - we can always walk away, or be reborn.

Possible advantages to SL: We have control over the way we look and we even have the power to be 'wealthy' - common excuses for a 'special someone' not liking us in RL.

Question is: Do you currently, or have you ever had a big time crush on someone in SL?

How did / do you deal with it? Does / Did it hurt? Was it as bad in SL as something similar in RL? Was it the avatar's look, or his / her personality you crushed on?

I was going to make it a poll, but it may be better not to.

No names need to be mentioned.

Molto Grazie,

Tito
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Buster Peel
Spat the dummy.
Join date: 7 Feb 2005
Posts: 1,242
03-17-2005 18:31
I have a big crush fem kitties. Oh man. I love 'em.
Lance LeFay
is a Thug
Join date: 1 May 2003
Posts: 1,488
03-17-2005 19:02
That was certainly random.
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Azazel Czukor
Deep-fried & sanctified
Join date: 30 Jan 2005
Posts: 417
03-17-2005 19:34
I have a crush on Phillip Linden, but I think its that whole alpha-male/God thing he has going on.
blaze Spinnaker
1/2 Serious
Join date: 12 Aug 2004
Posts: 5,898
03-17-2005 20:50
Spring is clearly in the air :)
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Aimee Weber
The one on the right
Join date: 30 Jan 2004
Posts: 4,286
03-17-2005 22:52
blaze Spinnaker


<3
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Huns Valen
Don't PM me here.
Join date: 3 May 2003
Posts: 2,749
03-18-2005 04:43
anxiously awaiting Mr. Madison's post in this thread

ps: Tito, if you ever run into a man named Inigo, turn and run away
Tito Gomez
Mi Vida Loca
Join date: 1 Aug 2004
Posts: 921
03-18-2005 04:57
From: someone
Spring is clearly in the air


Not in Chicago! I have observed a bad case of cabin fever going around.

Now, why did I post this message... Oh yeah! Too many green beers last night!

Tito
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Eboni Khan
Misanthrope
Join date: 17 Mar 2004
Posts: 2,133
03-18-2005 06:07
From: Tito Gomez
Not in Chicago! I have observed a bad case of cabin fever going around.

Now, why did I post this message... Oh yeah! Too many green beers last night!

Tito



I would disagree, remember that Sunday a couple weeks ago when it was like 70? Everyone was jogging topless, walking dogs, biking, fishing, golfing. It was crazy in Hyde Park. Spring in the air, at least on the warm days :)
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Trinity Serpentine
Schwan's Avitar Reject
Join date: 1 Oct 2003
Posts: 2,972
03-18-2005 07:06
I have a huge crush on Kate Hanks but she doesn't know about it. Er, well, guess she will now. Kate, I LOVE YOU!!! Be mine! :p :D
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Shadow Weaver
Ancient
Join date: 13 Jan 2003
Posts: 2,808
03-18-2005 07:10
Crushes are like baloons they inevitably get popped in a room full of pricks.
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Hobbes Abattoir
Registered User
Join date: 16 May 2004
Posts: 335
03-19-2005 07:23
<- has a super dooper secret crush on Trinity but don't tell her cos she might freak out!
Veritas Kennedy
Super Senior Member
Join date: 31 Dec 2004
Posts: 400
03-19-2005 07:44
I dont like love over virtual reality unless it feels real
Cross Lament
Loose-brained Vixen
Join date: 20 Mar 2004
Posts: 1,115
03-19-2005 16:41
Does anyone NOT have a crush on Torley? :o
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Charlotte Gillespie
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03-19-2005 16:43
http://www.neolog.com/images/pics/Torley.jpg
HeatherDawn Cohen
Who Me?!?!
Join date: 9 Aug 2004
Posts: 397
03-19-2005 17:14
I have to admit that I have a crush. I didn't even really think of it as a crush until the posting of the thread. I won't name a name because then I'd really feel dumb. But anytime I'm even around this person, I get all giddy. I feel like a silly little girl. Then when he talks to me...well, I don't think I really need to elaborate, I'm sure we have all had a crush.

Poor Poor Pitiful Me!
Siggy Romulus
DILLIGAF
Join date: 22 Sep 2003
Posts: 5,711
03-19-2005 17:34
From: Cross Lament
Does anyone NOT have a crush on Torley? :o



I crushed Torley underneath a bunch of physical bricks once... does that count?
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Chameleon Calliope
Invisible Woman
Join date: 14 Feb 2005
Posts: 76
03-19-2005 18:11
From: Tito Gomez
As we all know, SL is freaking too much like RL. Same pains, same pleasures. Only difference may be - we can always walk away, or be reborn.

Possible advantages to SL: We have control over the way we look and we even have the power to be 'wealthy' - common excuses for a 'special someone' not liking us in RL.

Question is: Do you currently, or have you ever had a big time crush on someone in SL?

How did / do you deal with it? Does / Did it hurt? Was it as bad in SL as something similar in RL? Was it the avatar's look, or his / her personality you crushed on?

I was going to make it a poll, but it may be better not to.

No names need to be mentioned.

Molto Grazie,

Tito
I met someone right off the bat who was charming, intelligent, articulate, and attentive (without being smothering)... the kind of person who would have appealed to me in RL. I misinterpreted his behavior, and when I let him know I had feelings for him he took off like a rat out of an aquaduct (forgive me, Monty Python, but I love that line).

Sure, it hurt. But I leaned a valuable lesson, and I'll be careful not to read too much into anyone's in-game behavior in the future.
Cyanide Leviathan
Xtreme Loser Squad
Join date: 12 Jun 2003
Posts: 408
03-19-2005 18:12
I <3 fetid pagan corpses.