Maybe i Might be wrong or trippin,but i need an opinion..
Tonight I just got back from a popular club with my girlfriend and she was pretty upset with me. You see what happened was i went out on the dancefloor to talk to my buddy Matt & dance a bit and some girl just came up & danced with me..so i I went back to talk with her and tell her what happened,she got ticked. But,yet she had five guys hitting up on her all night and told me yet i took it in stride.
I don't know maybe it's me but i feel there's like a certain double standard goin on.
I would never cheat on my partner whether it's SL or RL..it's just wouldn't sit well with me.
If this typ of situation happened to you wether in SL or RL, give me your opinion on it..
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Kiro Ming
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10-15-2005 23:56
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Lo Jacobs
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10-16-2005 00:11
There's no real right or wrong answer to that, folks just need to figure it out for themselves. Sounds like you need to have a chat with your girlfriend to decide what's cool with you both.
Also, many people define cheating as "something my partner's not comfortable with." You may be comfortable with guys hitting on your girlfriend. She however is not comfortable with a girl hitting on you. Either way, you should sit down and talk to her, not us  _____________________
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Zapoteth Zaius
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10-16-2005 07:28
There's no real right or wrong answer to that, folks just need to figure it out for themselves. Sounds like you need to have a chat with your girlfriend to decide what's cool with you both. Also, many people define cheating as "something my partner's not comfortable with." You may be comfortable with guys hitting on your girlfriend. She however is not comfortable with a girl hitting on you. Either way, you should sit down and talk to her, not us Well said Lo! *Applaudes!* _____________________
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Gabe Lippmann
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10-16-2005 08:08
Either way, you should sit down and talk to her, not us Yay _____________________
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Kiro Ming
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10-16-2005 08:12
Well,yeah..I did talk to her about it last night afterwards..so we already straightened that out. I just figured that there's probably others who had the same issue and could relate..but thx for the advice
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Bertha Horton
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10-16-2005 23:51
Dancing is a sin to anyone who can't dance (in RL, not SL)... they get jealous... or else they try to dance and come out like Elaine Benes.
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