A few thoughts on relationships
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Joseph Proudfoot
Proud Tsalagi
Join date: 2 Sep 2004
Posts: 234
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10-20-2005 10:25
There comes a time in our relationships where the things that didn't matter, suddenly do. My time here is limited, I make that clear up front. I've always been told the same thing, "It doesn't matter, I cherish the time you are here".
Lately, however, I was told I wasn't here enough and it was over. My first impulse was to be depressed, let my pain take over. However, I started thinking, in my profile I've compared myself to the Phoenix.
Doesn't he have to crash and burn to be reborn? I've decided that pain is not how I wish to exist, I've moved on. I will always miss her, but I've let her go. I am only sad that she wishes to not even speak to me anymore. I don't know what I've done, or even that I've done anything. All I can do is respect her wishes.
Peace,
Joseph
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If you truly love someone, love them enough to let them go.
I will miss you.
Which wolf are we feeding today?
"Crime is a smudge on the face of our world, and I, my friend, I am the wet nap of justice!!" Something the Tick should have said.
"I had the right to remain silent, I just didn't have the ability" Ron White
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Willow Zander
Having Blahgasms
Join date: 22 May 2004
Posts: 9,935
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10-20-2005 10:57
I hear you hun.
Sometimes you just can't be friends, sometimes its too hard, sometimes you just can't be friends until you have truley let go, and that takes time.
It all depends on how you go about handling it, I tend to sulk and pout for a bit, then I just gently move along, others like to experiment and jump from one person to the next.
Ive considered leaving this game SOOOOOOOOOOOOO many times over men, but I figure, they win that way and they can forget I ever exsisted, and I lose my expensive stuff!!!!
Anyways *hugs*!
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Daz Honey
Fine, Fine Artist
Join date: 27 Jun 2005
Posts: 599
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10-20-2005 11:00
awww Joe *kisses your eyelids* when you open your eyes there will be a new world and the posibility of love...
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Joseph Proudfoot
Proud Tsalagi
Join date: 2 Sep 2004
Posts: 234
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10-20-2005 11:37
Thank you both, for your words. 
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If you truly love someone, love them enough to let them go.
I will miss you.
Which wolf are we feeding today?
"Crime is a smudge on the face of our world, and I, my friend, I am the wet nap of justice!!" Something the Tick should have said.
"I had the right to remain silent, I just didn't have the ability" Ron White
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Joseph Proudfoot
Proud Tsalagi
Join date: 2 Sep 2004
Posts: 234
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10-21-2005 15:32
*chuckles* not flamey enough for you?
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If you truly love someone, love them enough to let them go.
I will miss you.
Which wolf are we feeding today?
"Crime is a smudge on the face of our world, and I, my friend, I am the wet nap of justice!!" Something the Tick should have said.
"I had the right to remain silent, I just didn't have the ability" Ron White
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Gwynnyth Charming
Dutch Treat
Join date: 24 Jan 2005
Posts: 1
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10-21-2005 16:26
Maybe, just maybe.. you're not the only one who had to crash and burn.
Maybe, we really don't know what we've got.. until it's gone.
Only time will tell.
Ay gvgeyui nihi. That will never change.
Igohidv,
Gwyn
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Jeska Linden
Administrator
Join date: 26 Jul 2004
Posts: 2,388
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10-21-2005 16:49
Moved to Off-Topic.
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Neehai Zapata
Unofficial Parent
Join date: 8 Apr 2004
Posts: 1,970
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10-21-2005 17:08
The only love that lasts forever is the one where you die first.
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Billy Grace
Land Market Facilitator
Join date: 8 Mar 2004
Posts: 2,307
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10-22-2005 07:45
Lots of us have been there Joseph. If only that moving on thingy was so easy.  Hugz n good luck.
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Frans Charming
You only need one Frans
Join date: 28 Jan 2005
Posts: 1,847
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10-22-2005 08:43
From: Joseph Proudfoot I don't know what I've done, or even that I've done anything. All I can do is respect her wishes.
I will respond on that little bit. It's most likely something that you didn't do. Or something you didn't live up to. And has probably more to do with her expectations then with your actions. Sometimes we want something from a other, that the other will never be able to give. It's sad but all you can do is move on. Take care. |
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Leilany LaFollette
Not old, just older
Join date: 11 Jan 2004
Posts: 686
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10-22-2005 08:49
I like your attitude, Joseph and trust me... things *do* get better *hugs* Leilany
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