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Best way to meet people and make friends in SL.

Erindale Hunt
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Join date: 16 Jul 2006
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08-09-2006 08:26
Im relitively new and have only 3 friends, This thread asks YOU what you think the best wat to meet new ppl is in SL.
Billybob Goodliffe
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Join date: 22 Dec 2005
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08-09-2006 08:29
do what I do, just randomly fly up to people and start talking. If they seem like your "kind of people" offer them friendship. The forums don't hurt either, I met alot of friends here.
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Erindale Hunt
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Join date: 16 Jul 2006
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08-09-2006 08:32
yah but theres a problem with that, some ppl would find it rude of someone to do that, I mean I could try it but I don't like to anger ppl.
Crazed Appin
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Join date: 13 May 2006
Posts: 7
08-09-2006 08:37
Try joining groups, I did a bunch of those SL military groups. I made tons of friends that way.
Liona Clio
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Join date: 30 Aug 2004
Posts: 1,500
08-09-2006 08:41
Going to events is also a great way to meet like minded people. Look for events that sound interesting to you, and TP in! You'll find yourself in a mutual conversation pit where you can join in and meet a buncha friendly folk.

Not to mention the forums...But then, we're a family all our own. :) Welcome to it!
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Erindale Hunt
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Join date: 16 Jul 2006
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08-09-2006 08:44
hehe the SL forums are alot more lively then some others ive been on.
Ghoti Nyak
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Join date: 7 Aug 2004
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08-09-2006 09:18
From: Erindale Hunt
Im relitively new and have only 3 friends, This thread asks YOU what you think the best wat to meet new ppl is in SL.


Do a Places search for 'The Shelter'. Pop on over there and hang out. There's seems to always be a bunch of folks there, many of them newbies.

-Ghoti
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Billybob Goodliffe
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08-09-2006 09:41
From: Erindale Hunt
hehe the SL forums are alot more lively then some others ive been on.

your welcome!
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bantifur Zapotocky
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Join date: 22 Jul 2006
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08-09-2006 10:47
Go up to random people and ask them for sex.
Jetta Bentham
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Join date: 31 Mar 2006
Posts: 91
08-09-2006 10:50
Start Djing, or dancing, hell even become an escort. Find a place where you think you'll fit in and wait for the general discussion to turn to something you an talk about.

I had an advantage when I joined SL, I already knew people there, so I ended up meeting people faster, but thatks to the forums, you have that same advantage! Don't be shy about IMing me, and I'm not sure about the other people posting here, but ask around, you'll be good to go in no time!
Gabe Lippmann
"Phone's ringing, Dude."
Join date: 14 Jun 2004
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08-09-2006 10:54
Join groups. Go to events. Go shopping (or window shopping) for things you think are interesting and you might run into people with similar interests.
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Lucifer Baphomet
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Join date: 8 Sep 2005
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08-09-2006 11:04
Its pretty much just like making friends in a new city, yes, its intimidating at first, but in no time youll find plenty of friends.
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Decadent Rothschild
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Join date: 22 Apr 2006
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08-09-2006 11:08
I used to sit on one of the statue pedestals in Amsterdam Square, which is a great place to meet people. I'd recommend peoplewatching for a while, as some seem to be drawn to the quiet or non-irritating types.
Lee Ponzu
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Join date: 28 Jun 2006
Posts: 1,770
Be friendly
08-09-2006 11:17
From: Erindale Hunt
Im relitively new and have only 3 friends, This thread asks YOU what you think the best wat to meet new ppl is in SL.


Be friendly. Act in ways that make people you like enjoy being with you. Don't be afraid to offer friendship as soon as you can see the person is not a lunatic.
David Valentino
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Join date: 1 Jan 2004
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08-09-2006 11:33
Attend all events with lots of guns strapped to your body and in your hands. It's also a good idea to wear a giant penis, as SL folks find this VERY amusing and it's a great conversation starter.
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Illya Sullivan
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Join date: 3 Dec 2005
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08-09-2006 11:34
Some places I've met great people:

Club Akasha, The Wet Kitty Pub, The Blarney Stone, The Elbow Room, The Blue Note.

That's an eclectic mix I know, but I'm sure one of them will spark an interest. Good luck!
Decadent Rothschild
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Join date: 22 Apr 2006
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08-09-2006 11:35
I second The Blarney Stone. Great place.
Margaret Mfume
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08-09-2006 12:49
Posting that your'e underage in the forum is a great way to meet resmods and Lindens although I'm not sure about adding you to their friend list. :p
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Billybob Goodliffe
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08-09-2006 12:50
From: Margaret Mfume
Posting that your'e underage in the forum is a great way to meet resmods and Lindens although I'm not sure about adding you to their friend list. :p

oh your just being picky! :D
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I asked God directly, and he says you're a douchebag.



Commander of the Militant Wing of the Salvation Army

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pandastrong Fairplay
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08-09-2006 12:54
You either need a gimmick or a catch phrase.
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Margaret Mfume
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08-09-2006 12:59
From: Billybob Goodliffe
oh your just being picky! :D

am not
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Billybob Goodliffe
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08-09-2006 13:13
From: Margaret Mfume
am not

are too! :D
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If life gives you lemons, you should make lemonade and try and find someone who's life has given them vodka and have a party!

From: Corvus Drake
I asked God directly, and he says you're a douchebag.



Commander of the Militant Wing of the Salvation Army

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Margaret Mfume
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08-09-2006 13:43
am not
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