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Chance Abattoir
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11-02-2005 17:45
When two opposing viewpoints, a thesis and antithesis, engage each other in argumentation, it is not merely the points of disagreement that are examined, but the STRUCTURE OF THE BELIEFS that FORM those points of disagreement. In order to achieve synthesis, one side must lose. That is, when a synthesis is reached, one side, one argument will be made to feel LESS than the other. That is what happens in argumentation. That is how progress is achieved through argumentation. That is how solutions are found.
If you don't want to have your beliefs questioned and be exposed to the possibility that you might feel your beliefs are WORTH less than another person's then DO NOT engage in argumentation. You might also want to stay away from diverse groups of people whose opinions you might not share in order to avoid being questioned and maintain your mental status quo.
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Zapoteth Zaius
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11-02-2005 17:57
*only reads the title* I disagree! You tiny little man! *runs away laughing* 
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Chance Abattoir
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11-02-2005 17:59
lol
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Zapoteth Zaius
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11-03-2005 06:13
I killed the thread But its the first ever responce that was just "lol" that I'VE got..
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Zapoteth Zaius
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11-13-2005 08:50
Come on, don't get me in trouble with Chance! Post!
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nand Nerd
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11-13-2005 09:05
Eloquently worded Chance. Irritating how discussions can turn to arguements which can turn to flaming or personal attacks.
Each to their own opinion and their right to stand by it, just be prepared to be corrected (eroniously sometimes).
nand
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Logan Bauer
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11-13-2005 15:24
From: Zapoteth Zaius Come on, don't get me in trouble with Chance! Post! I would have tried to respond, but I was much too busy taking everything as a personal attack and feeding off it, then running with tears streaming down my face to the fridge to grab another quart of Haagen-Das, only to return to the forums for more. This post WAS a direct attack on me, right? Chance IS implying that my side of the argument will inevitably lose, right? And his sig looked at me funny when he posted it too, that really got me pissed. Should I open a seperate thread to respond?
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Dyne Talamasca
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11-13-2005 18:49
Interesting reversal of the Hegelian equation.
"thesis - antithesis = synthesis"
Or something.
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Taco Rubio
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11-14-2005 07:20
why can't I be little? This seems intolerant to me, /reported.
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Zapoteth Zaius
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11-14-2005 07:29
From: Taco Rubio why can't I be little? This seems intolerant to me, /reported. Don't report! You tiny, little, man! Mwhahahaha.. I love saying that.. I need a new line though..
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Eggy Lippmann
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11-14-2005 07:30
From: Dyne Talamasca Interesting reversal of the Hegelian equation.
"thesis - antithesis = synthesis"
Or something. thesis + (-antithesis) = synthesis 
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Zapoteth Zaius
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11-14-2005 07:33
****sis + ****sis = sissy 
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Torley Linden
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01-02-2006 03:13
Tiny little man? How about Myron Reducto? 
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Teeny Leviathan
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01-02-2006 04:34
From: Torley Torgeson Tiny little man?
How about Myron Reducto? He's my hero! I'm named after a setting on his Shrink Gun! 
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Roberto Pow
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01-02-2006 06:03
From: nand Nerd
Each to their own opinion and their right to stand by it, just be prepared to be corrected (eroniously sometimes).
nand
I've noticed those eronious corrections! Makes me wonder what some people must be like in RL. Gastly thought!
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Billy Grace
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01-02-2006 13:38
I respectfully disagree Chance. Often here on these very forums two diametrically opposed viewpoints will be discussed, positions outlined, intelligent points made in depth by both sides and in the end we are still left with no "winner".
It is entirely possible for there to be no clear "victor" and for both sides to simply leave with a clearer understanding of the other side of the coin even though their own belief does not change.
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Cocoanut Koala
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01-02-2006 13:56
I disagree as well. First because, as Billy said, there usually is no winner. And secondly, feeling belittled is not a natural consequence of "losing" an argument - which I will interpret here tmeaning, "more people disagree with you than agree with you." It is never necessary to belittle another person in order to make your points. It is gratuitious. It is always possible to treat the opposing side with respect, though we are all human and often slip, from total disgust or whatever. Making it one's signature to treat others with belittlement, or indulging in it on purpose, however, does no good, and probably drives away others who might share your point of view. coco
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Gabe Lippmann
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01-02-2006 14:10
From: Taco Rubio why can't I be little? This seems intolerant to me, /reported. Short People got no reason Short People got no reason Short People got no reason To live They got little hands Little eyes They walk around Tellin' great big lies They got little noses And tiny little teeth They wear platform shoes On their nasty little feet Well, I don't want no Short People Don't want no Short People Don't want no Short People `Round here Short People are just the same As you and I (A Fool Such As I) All men are brothers Until the day they die (It's A Wonderful World) Short People got nobody Short People got nobody Short People got nobody To love They got little baby legs That stand so low You got to pick 'em up Just to say hello They got little cars That go beep, beep, beep They got little voices Goin' peep, peep, peep They got grubby little fingers And dirty little minds They're gonna get you every time Well, I don't want no Short People Don't want no Short People Don't want no Short People 'Round here
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Chance Abattoir
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01-02-2006 18:57
Billy, Cocoanut, thanks for the thoughts- but it's not in context anymore. I originally posted this back when a loud voice in another thread was playing the victim card any time someone disagreed with them. It wasn't meant to be taken so broadly; it was meant for that particular person to read it. The only reason this thread got brought back up was because someone linked the insult thread to the tiny man comment.
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Joy Honey
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01-02-2006 19:17
you nasty troll... how dare you belittle everyone  
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