A few months ago, I learned a guy i work with is also a SL multiple sim owner. I scored a shoreline and went to work, not knowing what would come of it.
Over time It has evolved into 3 distinct areas, joined by a hub in the form of a small temple. I hope to host DJ and live performances in these areas, but I am at a loss as to finding the best info. Anyone care to give some tips?

To give an idea of what I am describing: My place is at kerberos: http://slurl.com/secondlife/Kerberos/40/153/29 -- I also have a flickr set here: http://www.flickr.com/photos/17046579@N08/
Basically, its a lounge for music performances, such as acoustic or a chillout DJ session, theres a gallery-style building (of which im stuck on furniture), and a large skybox which simulates outer-space, which i hope to have house and techno and other spaced-out performances. I put at least 100 hours into the design of this place. I also spent way more than I should have on Heart Garden plants.
moving on......
What I'd like to know is:
- how people manage their clubs/venues/lands when it comes to visitors. I see "welcome mats" for sale that have anything from 10 to 300 lines of code in them. I want to avoid the annoyances like being bombarded with notecards and other popups, but i would like to offer visitors to take a notecard at their choosing.
- I'd also love to know what the general comraderie is like amongst similar venue owners. Does it tend to be a happy family, or can it be more like the real world where things can be unneccesarily competitive? Im not here to compete or be "the hottest club in second life!" or any of that. I just want to share and share alike.
- Im hungry for info today

- Reduced Beauty or Reduced Lag? The lounge i built is a prim hog, to summarize: My sim owner gave me 1/2 sims worth of prims to use on just over 1/4 of the sim. But my jobs always involve mega-detail. I wouldnt be interested in this lounge if it was designed simple. Nope, I wanted to play with lighting and thave it in view of sunrise-to-sunset to soak up the light, especially the windlight


- last question: How much promotion is too much promotion? I had to remove myself from many lists becasue notices are sent every 30 minutes or even more. Dont notices appear once someone logs in? I am ok with IM blasts, but i hate seeng 15 notices everytime i log in to hear about someones DJ gig from 7 hours ago.
ok, i think thats about it, any info is truly appreciated.
Regards,
Court