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Marriage and Divorce Question

Jessica Ingmann
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Join date: 8 Oct 2005
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10-18-2005 09:35
Alright. Idiotic question about Partners. How on Earth do you divorce someone? I've looked all up a down these forums, the site itself, and various other locations, including a very less-than-helpful trip to Google. How do you divorce someone you no longer feel that you can love? *sighs* Also, why I need to do this is something I'd rather not get into, but thanks.
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ZsuZsanna Raven
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Join date: 19 Dec 2004
Posts: 2,361
10-18-2005 09:38
I had to do this recently myself, it isn't fun and I feel bad for anyone that has to end a partnership with someone they cared immensly for.

Go to the Community section of the SL Main Page, the option should be at the very bottom in the middle. I wish you well :)
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Lecktor Hannibal
YOUR MOM
Join date: 1 Jul 2004
Posts: 6,734
10-18-2005 09:42
https://secondlife.com/partner/
Click the box for I would like to resolve my parnership with ....
Click submit.
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Siggy Romulus
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Join date: 22 Sep 2003
Posts: 5,711
10-18-2005 10:21
Here in Second Life we have a very simple and mature way of doing this..

You walk up to your partner and you say:

"I break with thee, I break with thee, I break with thee!"

And then you throw dog poop on their shoes.
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Lecktor Hannibal
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Join date: 1 Jul 2004
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10-18-2005 10:32
Or throw them down to the ground and emit sulphurous gasses on their head.
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ZsuZsanna Raven
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10-18-2005 10:34
From: Lecktor Hannibal
Or throw them down to the ground and emit sulphurous gasses on their head.



That's too nice
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Lecktor Hannibal
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10-18-2005 10:35
From: Siggy Romulus
Here in Second Life we have a very simple and mature way of doing this..

You walk up to your partner and you say:

"I break with thee, I break with thee, I break with thee!"

And then you throw dog poop on their shoes.

BTW Siggy you are one Wild and Crazy Guy !
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Jessica Ingmann
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Join date: 8 Oct 2005
Posts: 35
10-18-2005 12:47
The deed is done.(The reason I didn't see that option was because, as it turns out, they divorced me first. I guess they saw it coming. . .) Thank you, fellow Second Lifers. . . And thanks for those. . .unique. . .words of encouragement. Heh.
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Tai Tuppakaka
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Join date: 13 Sep 2005
Posts: 109
10-18-2005 12:56
My favorite quote from The Simpsons:

Edna: Is there a Mrs. Comic Book Guy?
Comic Book Guy: Well I was married once. In an online fantasy game. We were thinking of having children but that would have severely drained my power crystals.
Siggy Romulus
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Join date: 22 Sep 2003
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10-18-2005 18:37
From: Lecktor Hannibal
BTW Siggy you are one Wild and Crazy Guy !


And then me and Lecktor - we go to the crazy swinging bars.. and we look for the girls with the dog poop on their shoes!
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Lecktor Hannibal
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10-18-2005 18:49
...and yet another keyboard ruined. Thanks.
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Lash Xevious
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Join date: 8 May 2004
Posts: 1,348
10-18-2005 20:30
It says I would like to dissolve my relationship with so-and-so. I tried that once. Told em, "I've dissolved our partnership!" He looked at me like I asked him for an Alka-seltzer. We're still together. :p
SuezanneC Baskerville
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10-18-2005 20:38
From: someone
them down to the ground and emit sulphurous gasses on their head.


So that's what's going on at the Welcome Area all the time, divorces. Whoodah figured?
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Lecktor Hannibal
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10-18-2005 21:07
From: Lash Xevious
It says I would like to dissolve my relationship with so-and-so. I tried that once. Told em, "I've dissolved our partnership!" He looked at me like I asked him for an Alka-seltzer. We're still together. :p

You didn't follow the directions as outlayed by Siggy "I break with thee, I break with thee, i break with thee." Then throw dog poop on his shoes.
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Usagi Musashi
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Join date: 24 Oct 2004
Posts: 6,083
10-18-2005 22:10
I wonder who has the record most parnters in the game?
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Siggy Romulus
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Join date: 22 Sep 2003
Posts: 5,711
10-18-2005 22:41
From: Usagi Musashi
I wonder who has the record most parnters in the game?


Hmm looks something we should suggest to have added to the leaderboards!

Personally I think if Cyrus Apollo broke with all his fiance's then he'd totally beat everyone... he's such a manwhore.

Siggy.
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Selador Cellardoor
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Join date: 16 Nov 2003
Posts: 3,082
10-19-2005 04:02
From: Jessica Ingmann
The deed is done.(The reason I didn't see that option was because, as it turns out, they divorced me first. I guess they saw it coming. . .) Thank you, fellow Second Lifers. . . And thanks for those. . .unique. . .words of encouragement. Heh.


:( Hope things improve for you soon.
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Creami Cannoli
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Join date: 17 Jul 2005
Posts: 414
10-19-2005 18:00
I've had 2 so far, I dissolved the partnership the first time so the guy that liked me (or got dumped for me roflmao...that was a HUGE BS drama) would feel important. Then I dissolved it with him because he got on my nerves and was too damn whiny and clingy. So I rehooked up with my wondeful partner. The next day or so, the man quit the game. Too bad no one has made an in-world HUGE bottle of midol that I could have given him as a parting gift.

So I guess you could say I am currently with my third partner, who happened to be my first one.
Teeny Leviathan
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Join date: 20 May 2003
Posts: 2,716
10-19-2005 19:21
Well, there is always the Triple Talaq. I'm no expert on Islam, but I guess this is legit.
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Majaara Bunyip
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Join date: 8 Oct 2005
Posts: 5
10-24-2005 11:59
Can anyone tell me if 3-way marriages are aloud in Second Life? I am in the most wonderful situation and we would like to be married. Any information would be most appreciated. Thanks.
Katja Marlowe
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Join date: 15 Apr 2005
Posts: 421
10-24-2005 12:02
From: Majaara Bunyip
Can anyone tell me if 3-way marriages are aloud in Second Life? I am in the most wonderful situation and we would like to be married. Any information would be most appreciated. Thanks.


Well, it's _allowed_, as in LL or the marriage police will not descend upon you screaming "NOT ALLLOOOOWEEEED, PERMA BAN YOUUUUU". But in terms of the features of SL, there would be no way in the partner slot to list two partners. Officially, in terms of the partner tab, you would be unable to put both in there. I've seen people get around this by either not partnering either party, or deciding which two will be partnered and then using their profiles to extoll the virtues of the other spouse.
Majaara Bunyip
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Join date: 8 Oct 2005
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10-24-2005 12:09
Darn, thanks for the quick reply though. Hmmm, guess we'll opt for the first one and just use our profiles to show we are married. Thanks again. *Hugs*
Juro Kothari
Like a dog on a bone
Join date: 4 Sep 2003
Posts: 4,418
10-24-2005 12:12
Personally, I think all divorces should have to go through a one-month waiting period, but the Lindens should open a new sim named "Reno" where you could get it done ASAP for a higher fee. ;)
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Lacey Fardel
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10-24-2005 12:46
From: Lecktor Hannibal
...and yet another keyboard ruined. Thanks.


Not to mention that lemonade really hurts coming out the nose!
Eos Zander
Registered User
Join date: 22 May 2004
Posts: 135
Divorce
10-24-2005 13:56
You don't have to partner to marry on SL. You don't have to unpartner to divorce. Partnering is an ingenious money making scheme by some one at Linden Lab. $10.00 to partner and a whopping $25.00 to disolve the partnership. I wish I'd thought of it first.